Thumper's Mom's Advice

Thumper's mom had it right all along, "If you can't say something nice about someone, ......." You know the rest, don't you.."don't say anything at all". Today, I wish I could have followed her advice. In the heat of the argument, when I knew I was right (and maybe I was--that's neither here nor there), I pick words and say things that will "score the most points" damage-wise. And yes, I can do a lot of damage when I am provoked. When the points are totaled and the "winner" walks away, that's when it hits--"'The winner' didn't win anything!" The "winner" lost self-control, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, peace, joy, and love. The Holy Spirit reminded me of this and I was able to apologize to my dear daughter. Our relationship has been restored, but I would have given anything if I just would have been quiet and respected her wishes. Yes, "If you can't say something nice about someone, don't say anything at all."